Dr. Carolynn Shalom

When Motivation Disappears: Understanding Everyday Depression

You wake up.
Nothing feels wrong, exactly — and yet, nothing feels right either.
Tasks that used to feel manageable now feel monumental.

This can be a sign of mild to moderate depression

Not the dramatic kind shown in movies.
The quiet kind. The slow drip.

Why it happens

Depression often interferes with:

  • Reward systems
  • Energy regulation
  • Concentration
  • Emotional processing

The “stuck” feeling

It’s not laziness.
It’s not lack of willpower.
It’s a physiological and emotional state where your system is trying to conserve energy.

What helps

  • Start with the smallest possible task.
    “Put on socks” is a valid goal.
  • Routine over motivation.
    Motivation shows up after momentum, not before.

Name your emotional state.
It reduces self-blame.

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